Although self-expression through body art can be stunning, it can also draw criticism from societal norms. Richard Huff, a 51-year-old who proudly identifies as an “ink addict” with more than 240 tattoos, bravely shared his experience of enduring persistent online harassment, where he has been unjustly labeled a subpar parent and even branded a ’monster’ due to his extensive tattoo collection.
Richard Huff, a 51-year-old father who proudly identifies as an “ink addict,” has candidly discussed the harsh criticism he and his wife, Marita, face. Despite being parents to seven children and leading a typical family life, they are often targeted with online ridicule because of Richard’s extensive tattoo coverage.
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Richard’s journey into tattoos began at 17 with his first piece of ink. “It became an addiction, I started with my legs and worked my way up,” he recalled. Today, approximately 85% of his body is adorned with tattoos featuring the names of his children and even his daughter’s lips.
“I want to be 100% covered in tattoos probably within the next four years,” Richard shared. “I don’t know if it’s the pain or the artwork you put on you, but it just becomes fascinating when you’re able to do this,” he added.
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While Richard’s deep passion for tattoos has its downsides, it’s not without its challenges. He shared that children at his kids’ school would frequently become apprehensive around him. His daughter once disclosed, “They say, ‘ah, it’s a bit scary,’ and I say, ‘no, my dad is not scary, he is good with tattoos.’”
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Richard’s wife, Marita, admitted that she too had reservations about his appearance initially, saying, “I did judge Richard based on his looks at first, but as I got to know him a little bit, he is actually a big-hearted person.”
Some people also question Marita’s decision to be with Richard, asking, “How could you choose ’a monster’ to be your child’s father?”
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Despite the adverse reactions to his appearance, Richard remains unwavering as a loving father to his children. “I participate in the PTA, I go to all my kids’ functions,” he said. Online critics have been unkind about Richard’s choices, with one remarking, “I’m not against tattoos, but I mean honestly, does he really need tattoos on his face like that?”
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However, numerous individuals have rallied to Richard’s support, with one commentator asserting, “Everyone keeps talking about his face tattoo. He likes it. He got it. He’s a good father. Let him be.” Another commenter pointed out that his tattoos have no bearing on his ability to be a good parent, “Just because someone has tattoos, doesn’t mean they’re a bad parent.”
Richard believes that what people say about others reflects their true character. And he will keep doing what makes him happy. “This is what we did, and we’re happy. We’ve been together six years, our kids are happy, and to us, that’s all that matters,” he said.
Richard acknowledges that while the hurtful comments online can be excessive, they do not alter his deep love and dedication to his family. “Having tattoos does not scare my children, it does not make me a bad father, it makes my kids get a different perspective on life.”
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Whether heavily tattooed or not, the reality is that we have the freedom to choose how we present ourselves to others. Richard is not alone in his choice to proudly display tattoos on his body. There is a grandma who spent her life-savings to tattoo her body despite critics saying she is too old.
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