“Women Should Stay in the Kitchen” – Josh Jacobs Under Fire
According to multiple on-field sources and mic’d-up sideline audio, Jacobs reportedly muttered the words, “Women should stay in the kitchen,” under his breath after Thomas flagged him for unsportsmanlike conduct following a late shove out of bounds.
Although Jacobs did not say it directly into a microphone, lip readers, commentators, and even some teammates confirmed the phrase, which quickly spread across social media with lightning speed. The hashtag #JoshJacobsSexism began trending on X (formerly Twitter), and a tidal wave of criticism soon followed.
Fans, players, and public figures didn’t hold back. ESPN host Mina Kimes tweeted:
“2025 and we’re still dealing with this garbage? Sarah Thomas is more qualified than half the league.”
Sarah Thomas Claps Back: “I Make Calls, Not Sandwiches”
What has captured the hearts — and feeds — of millions wasn’t just Jacobs’ remark, but how Sarah Thomas responded.
Known for her cool composure and being the first full-time female referee in the NFL, Thomas reportedly didn’t hesitate. According to players within earshot, she looked Jacobs in the eyes and coolly responded:
“I make calls, not sandwiches.”
The five words instantly stunned the sideline. Within minutes, the clip of her saying it began making rounds on social media. TikTok users quickly turned the moment into viral audio, and the phrase is now being hailed as the most iconic sports clapback of the year.
Josh Jacobs Enters the Chat — And Issues a Surprising Apology
What truly threw the situation into overdrive was the unexpected appearance of Josh Jacobs in the controversy.
Shortly after the viral video spread, Wallace tweeted cryptically:
“Hard lessons hit hardest when you’ve laughed before. I was wrong.”
Social media users quickly dug into old posts and videos and uncovered a now-deleted podcast appearance from earlier this year, where Wallace laughed at a sexist joke about female referees. Though not directly related to Jacobs’ outburst, the timing — and Wallace’s guilt-ridden tone — suggested he felt partially responsible for fueling a toxic culture.
Later that day, Wallace issued a full statement:
“I want to be clear: I do not support what was said to Sarah Thomas. I’ve reflected on past comments I laughed at — and I was wrong. Women deserve respect in every arena. I apologize to Sarah, to fans, and to everyone I let down.”
NFL Investigating, Public Reaction Divided
The NFL responded swiftly, issuing a statement that it is launching an investigation into Jacobs’ remark and reiterating its zero-tolerance policy on discrimination and harassment. League sources suggest Jacobs may face a fine, suspension, or mandatory training, depending on the outcome.
Public opinion is split. While many fans demand Jacobs be suspended or even released, others argue it was a moment of frustration, not true malice. But many agree: in 2025, such comments are completely unacceptable, especially when directed at trailblazers like Thomas.
A Cultural Wake-Up Call
Sarah Thomas continues her officiating duties amid massive public support. She has not given any further comment to the media, letting her actions — and that legendary five-word retort — speak volumes.
Meanwhile, t-shirts, mugs, and posters with the quote “I make calls, not sandwiches” are being sold across online platforms. Proceeds from several fan-made campaigns are reportedly going toward initiatives supporting women in sports.
Whether Jacobs meant it as a joke or an insult, the moment has ignited a powerful conversation about gender, respect, and accountability in professional athletics.